why are boys so gross

i thought i was through with this after high school. for some bizarre naive reason i thought i'd seen the last of the gross sexism, blatant objectification and casual homophobia but nope. ofc not. still surrounded by guys who see women as sex objects, who take pleasure in belittling female celebrities, who usw gay as an insult (really though, really?) who don't give a single flying fuck about all the women who don't meet up to the impossible ideals.

it's sick and it makes me sick and it is so, so difficult to be around people who have such gross ideas about your whole gender. and if you say anything they'll call you crazy and overreacting, one of those Crazy Feminists. but when it's either that or absorb the toxicity, i'll take Crazy Feminist anyway.